Today we made the biggest mess I think I've ever let you make in the house. I've always thought it would be awesome to finger paint a wall, so today for your play date with your school friends I set up the tarps and paints in your toy room. To be honest I was probably more excited about it than you guys were to start out with.
We got the four of you in your smocks and poured the paint into the bowls... and let you have at it. At first you were hesitant, like you were afraid I was going to change my mind and reprimand you for making a mess. It was funny encouraging you to let loose and actually get paint on the walls.
It didn't take long for all of you to loosen up - once you gave into the squishy paint in your hands and the freedom to make a complete mess, you guys had more fun than I've seen you have in a LONG time.
The laughter and freedom and creativity that started to shine through was so cool to witness. It made me want to have more "yes" moments with you. Yes, you can finger paint the wall with no reservations. Yes you can paint with your feet.
Yes you can empty the bottles of paint. Yes you can jump up high and make handprints. Yes I will pick your paint covered self up so you can reach the top of the wall.
Yes you can take the bottles of paint and splash it all over the wall. And the ceiling. And the carpet where it's not covered up. Because your smiles are worth it.
I love that we have the space and ability in our home to make messes. I hope that as you grow you take the things you are learning now and you are able to apply them to the life you live. Enjoy the process. Get messy. Have fun.
And occasionally, (even if it means scrubbing paint out of the carpet with vinegar and soap),
say yes.
Love,
Mom
